- Do you like it? Travelling alone?
- Is it safe?
- How does it feel?
- You really go? How do you go?
Though I do want to tell all those people that ‘Hey I haven’t come from 2120, I belong to your time!’.. But I actually step back and think for a while. Because I know what do they mean. I keep getting questions like these and many weirder ones from.. let’s say ‘various’ people, aaand I used to feel like a swagger ‘yay baby.. I do solo-travelling.. I am cool you see!!’
NOO, cool isn’t something that complements to my characteristics, may be ‘Hot’ I will settle with (don’t get into any kind of winking imagination, I meant my head, where temperature keep rising on short term basis) neither this is the reason that I travel solo.. You know to show off and make others jealous of me!! (***Listen this is just for you, that ‘jealous’ part feels good though)!!

Okay Okay.. Coming to the point… As there are many questions, doubts, contemplation, queries on my solivagant wanderings, for which Mata Kachuarupee Pankheshwari has come to give answer to all your dilemmas, wariness and inquiries.
There was a time, when I used to live a very simple life, doing office job, carrying office work at home some days, watch TV while having dinner, cooking Saturday night pasta, going for one or two holidays in a year with family and at times with friends. And then… Nothing Changed!! Apart from my travel pattern and carried away with that inclination, my exhibition of crowing about it on my #TravelBlog!!
When I was in college I used to tell my all time ‘girl’-friend, ‘I just don’t want to travel. I want to go to a country, stay there for months, see their villages, small towns and know all about them.’
She could only raise her brow to it and say in absolute disbelief ‘wow!’ At that stage of life, all you do is dream incessantly and unconditionally. I even did tell my parents few times about it, the result of it is known to you, if you have read my book. Then there were many many times I used to wish for it. So finally, ‘when it was time’ universe showed the sign and made the way.

So the point is ‘travelling Solo’ or as I call it, ‘Travelling with my own existence’ was one of my biggest goal of my life and I was running for it for a while. Lucky that I didn’t take any diversion, and This is my hideout, my way of escaping from life for a while and finding myself in a way which even I wasn’t aware of. So YESS, I LOVE travelling solo, wandering the way I want, do what I feel like and eat whenever I feel, speak to people if I like or ignore them leaving them boggled!! So question 1 & 3 answered. If you still have any doubt, which The Mata Kachuaruppe Pankheshwari knows you have, then my dear.. just let it be yaaa?? My dream.. your doubt.. let it be like this.. NEXT…
Travelling with family, husband, wife, chutku-putku, sweetheart or once again travelling ‘Alone’ (as if these people are abandoned by the world); for any of the cases we do consider safety, current political scenario, connectivity, tourism infrastructure of the place, right? (I am getting technical) I agree in terms of solo-travel a little added measure or caution is required.. and that little added caution is enough. We are in the time of easy-global-connection-and-reach. So a little bit of research, communication and confidence; things are bound to be safe. (Don’t bite your nails, this needs more discussion I got it, wait for the next posts, I am not running away)

Coming to question no. 4: You still want me to answer it?? Really? For the second part of the question, I go by flight or train or use various mode of transport as I feel like. I can even walk with my one big suitcase and a backpack.. how many people have you seen travelling solo with excess baggage??
That’s for today.. You are free to ask, tell or comment whatever you feel like to The Mata Kachuaruppe Pankheshwari. I will be back next week.. Till then stay safe, stay amazing and enjoy life.
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I love your spirit of ‘Solo-Travel’ and am quite inspired by it. I am desperately looking forward to the travel world opening up soon, and to explore the solo-traveler in me. I definitely dont need the answer to the fourth question. The first three are motivating enough 🙂
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Thank you very much for reading. even I am looking forward to travel very soon..
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Now that’s quite motivating. I have been contemplating on solo travel for a while now. Looking forward to travelling soom
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Thank you for your lovely words and for reading this post– I think we all are looking forward to travelling soon
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I like the solo traveller. Good company! 🙂
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Thank you so much 🙂
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I too prefer solo travelling at times, unfortunately, my solo travels are just small getaways during work travels, otherwise, it gets so difficult, I wish we can get to travelling again soon
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work or leisure.. travel always makes a difference.. even I am looking forward to travelling again soon.. thank you for reading.
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This was such a fun way of writing about traveling solo…I used to travel solo a lot in the past but now it is too much to even think of! Looking forward to more posts!!
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great to connect with another Solo traveller, wish you luck for your future travel plans– thank you for reading.
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I travel a lot and most of the time solo and your post was relatable at so many levels. I love how you have elevated normal storytelling to a different level with your humor element in it. Keep travelling…keep sharing the stories…All the best.
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I love your hashtags.. Thank you for reading and your encouragement.
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this is really nice and beautifully written . loved it
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Thank you for reading.
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Travelling solo is a really wonderful thing to do. For some people it is the only way that makes any sense! But at the same time, it doesn’t make any sense at all to some other people. Those who don’t understand the beauty of solo travelling can’t be persuaded. We can only hope that one day they try it themselves and fall in love with it. Good to know that you love travelling by yourself. Great post.
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thank you very much, only a solo traveller understands the feeling of another solo traveller.. though I don’t complain with people who doesn’t (it’s okay!!)
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Yea, what is the point in complaining anyway. These are ways of life and perspective. Everyone can have a different one. I’m just wondering what special part Fort Kochi has in your travel life. Was that your first solo destination?
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No, but during my first family visit to Kerala, I fell in love with Fort Kochi and I wanted to come back there and stay on the island. Fort Kochi has a different charm.
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Indeed, it does have a different charm. I was lucky enough to live there a couple of years.
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You are really lucky..
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Enjoyed reading this. I have never traveled solo. I feel anxious. But hopefully, someday.
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As I believe, all will be with time.. Thank you for reading.
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I would love to d a few more solo travels before I have to hang up my boots. I started everything late in life and solo travel was one of them. My Kashmir trip in 2017 was an enlightening experience. I actually stopped in the villages, orchards and went to places, not on the tourist map, I have blogged about my trip. Itching to go again once Corona goes go go go! 🙂
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Even I started late on everything.. but as long as we get to do what we want matters.. I am fascinated to know about your Kashmir trip. For me going to off-beat places has some swag..
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To travel solo or not to travel solo. that’ll always be a question that’ll never stop! 😃 You’ve answered many of mine here!
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I have to use this line in my next post quoting you… Thank you for reading
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Loved this post a lot, dil se. As I have been planning as well as convincing my family for a solo trip as I need that self break. Taking our own responsibility and exploring on our own is yet another level of experience. Inspiring post and sure it got me more motivated to plan my first soon.
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Awww.. feels so good when someone says my few words have motivated someone.. thank you for reading.
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I used to travel alone few years back and this post reminded me what I forgot over the years.
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At least you got to travel with yourself, many don’t get that opportunity maybe.. great to connect with yet another solo-traveller. Thank you for reading.
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It has been a while since I traveled solo (or traveled for that matter). It is indeed liberating. I am sure your post will be helpful for those who are still on the fence about it.
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Thank you very much 🙂
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Truly loved your heatfelt chatter. You remind me of growing up years 🙂
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SO glad that my words took you back to your happy place for a while.. thank you for reading.
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Haven’t done a solo trip yet since I prefer sharing the pleasures of travel with a friend/family or my spouse. But I have friends who keep doing solo trips and they have a lot of fun 🙂
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It’s all about what makes you happy at the end.. if you feel the happiest sharing your happiness.. you should keep doing it. thank you for reading.
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i did a lot of solo traveling even took jobs at various locations so that I could travel. Ah, the good old days… soon would plan a trip my wandering feet are tormenting me… after Covid has passed on I’ll resume traveling.
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happy to connect with you.. thank you for reading.. hope we get to resume our wanderings soon…
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Pretty nice post Payel. Loved reading it. Solo travel is fun as you don’t need to depend on others for their consent or thoughts. Your are the boss there and keep moving around as and when you like. Thanks for sharing this.
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exactly.. you have just said it all.. thank you for reading.
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glad to follow your solo travel journey!
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Thank you SInjana
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This reminds me of my first solo trip!
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Ooh! where was it?
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That was quite a start to an amazing series if experiences i am sure. Looking forward to more travelogues from the solo traveller.
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Thank you very much for reading.
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solo travel and I don’t really gel together. I need someone to share my experience with, go “Wow, or what a dump” is more effective is there is someone to listen to me. Plus I do think for solo travel you need to be very very comfortable in your skin as well as have courage, again both points against me. So I think what you are doing, is really really great!
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I think it’s absolutely ok if you like to travel with others.. even I travel with my family as well. It’s about what gives you the peace of mind.
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Solo travel is not my cup of tea. But I really applaud you for being courageous as well as being so comfortable in your asking so as to do solo travel ( both these points are against me!). Will look forward to more of your adventures
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thank you very much for reading and your lovely words.
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I think the thing that stops me the most from solo travelling is I know I won’t do much travelling without someone sitting on my head and saying we need to get out. Also the planning involved *shivers*
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hahha.. actually my thought is just the other way.. I want to do things my way.. no ‘rok-tok’.. just whatever I want time!! 😀
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